In my previous post, I wrote that my mate's father had died. The family notified me that they would have appreciated my presence. Honoured as I was to receive such an invitation, I was pretty nervous too. Especially since these kind of formal situations require one's full attention and respect.
The ceremony was held in a building whose sole business is overseeing ceremonies and funerals. Next to the grand and beautiful ceremonial hall—where Akio's father's open coffin was resting—there was a big dining room. After the ceremony, everyone entered this simple, yet beautiful and serene mini hall to then indulge (in a civilised manner, of course) in a culinary feast. And the food wasn't brought in from some local caterer—oh no, there were at least half a dozen cooks doing the business on the spot.
In all, the atmosphere was very relaxed and laid back, considering it was a funeral. But it was obviously more a celebration of someone's life and of his achievements, and of the respected old age of 90 years old that he became. Rather than a sudden, tragic loss of a person who was too young. And, he died softly in his sleep. I'd sign up for such a way to go any day of the week.
So, since I had to go up and down again to Tokyo and had been sitting, for my liking, too long in the car again—today was walking day. Today was sunshine and still pretty hot, so ideal hiking weather. For those interested in "walkies"—I've recently put up a first video on YouTube, walking in and around Ohara, Chiba. After editing, I'll put up today's video too.
As for now, wherever you are, take care/be safe. Peace, TIN
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